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I realized that I wait for my bf to text me to hang out almost every night. And on the rare occassions he doesn't text me, I go crazy becuase I feel helpless. I think this is becuase we have set up a dynamic where he has all the power to decide when we hang out, and I almost never ask him. I like that he pursues me and always wants to hang out, but I don't feel like I can ask him to hang. Now he says he needs a little space becuase he doesnt have time for his friends, but he is the one who always asked me to hang out! I feel helpless. How do I handle this?
Stem05 Stem05 26-30, F 5 Answers Apr 18 in Dating & Relationships

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You've left yourself powerless in your relationship. That never ends well

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It sounds to me like he doesn't call you some nights because he wants you to call him - and he wants some time with his friends because he feels like he's putting in all the effort.

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If you don't call him to go out he may think you're not interested in the relationship and leave. That's just my humble opinion though.

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did we read the same post? He has ALL the power in the relationship and she gave it to him.

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Everyone has a different opinion.

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You need to have things that fulfill you that don't involve him, if you wanna hang with him ask the worst he can say is no.

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