Talk to your lawyer, then go to the cops, and finally call the landlord. Have him taken off the lease and then have the landlord change the locks. Pay for it if necessary. But stop *asking*. Just do it. He's obviously not going to go just because you're asking, he's an abusive bully who's damaging your children.
Seriously? Leave yourself it's the only way!
Have you put a protection order on him? If so, proceed to Domestic Violence Center.
Yes, you can be charged from selling or ruining his stuff. Have you look into legal Aid?
I paid 200.00 for the packet. Yes, it 's a lot of paper work.
He also can come and go as he please until the divorced is finalized.
I put up with so much bullshit, he fought me until the end. I know exactly what your going through.
If he is paying the rent then he has the right to stay and you certainly have the freedom to go. Sounds like you need to just face the music and leave otherwise both your children and you will continue to suffer and trust me... if your children are young then this will affect thier behavior when they get a little older should you stay.
Speak to advocates at a battered women's shelter. They will help you in the right direction-they will know legal folks who may help.
It is my assumption that your checks are in the form of welfare. You cannot leave because this will require changing addresses and reapplying for aid.
If the abuse is physical the police may be called and he arrested. The children I fear should be in the hands of DCFS and not in this environment. We are not privy to the dynamics of your situation and can only surmise that it is a hell hole for the children to which you are also contributing as well by staying.
Cancel the TV service and the internet. You can survive without them.
Sell the house. Change your name and appearance and go to another part of the continent/ world and keep moving for 2 years. Have someone send u a post card ( in an Envelope) from Australia, fill it in and send it back to Australia for someone to mail it to husband. With a bit of luck he will go there and bother someone else.
Divorce?,tell your family members to force him out?,Police?.
why dont you have all your family members in side your house when hes there be like GET OUT... or unless you wanna be on the nice side say we dont want you here please leave
You must feel like you are between a rock and a hard place right now, and I am so sorry for you and your children. (( hugs ))
It's been almost 30 years since I myself was in such a predicament ( minus having kids ).
I left. I know this would be an issue for you, seemingly impossible. Is it possible the father of your children could step in to help in any way ?
Does he abuse you because of drug use ? Or does he get drunk and abusive ?
The only answer is to follow through next time you call police. Then you could get a restraining order to have him removed.
Best of luck to you .
When u are truly tired of this, u will leave
Get a divorce.
My suggestion would be to seek woman's group. Get counseling. Maybe you both could seek marriage counseling, if the both of you genuinely love one another there shouldn't be any limits to what you're both willing to do, to get back to good
:( I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you take care of you. Seek counseling from a woman's group. Make the best choice for you and your children.
if he is not convinced, better ask him not to interfere in requisite family affair ..
In a coffin.