I have been seeing a married man, we grew up together and reconnected on fb. I have never fooled with a married man before but there is something about this one. He married his first real gf and I think they basiclly out grew each other. We have so much fun when we are together and have said this is just for fun. I have kept my feelings at bay and just been enjoying our time together. He told me a few weeks ago that he can not stop thinking about me. I live w my long time bf, we really are just friends sharing an apartment. Anyway I told him we need to take a break, he called me this morning and said that he misses me. He has never told me that he loves me but he said he has never felt like he does when he's with me. I feel the same way about him and I miss him terrlibly. I am not sure if I should see him again, maybe I am just setting myself up for a heart break. I think I may be in love, he told me that our feelings for each other has to do with the L word. What is he trying to do?