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So I've been friends with this girl for about 3 years now, we're very close. We used to be best friends when we were kids but we stopped hanging out as we got older but about 3 and a half years ago we got in touch again. We quickly became good friends. She tell me everything and I tell her everything I'm there for her whenever she's sad and she's there for me. The problem is I've started to develop feelings for her. She really is an amazing, down to earth, intelligent girl. I don't want to ruin our friendship though, and by asking her if she likes me it might make it awkward, but she doesn't seem like the kind of girl that would ruin a friendship just because someone has feelings for the other, Should I just stop worrying about it and ask her or should I just forget about it?
thatbratty1 thatbratty1 18-21, M 3 Answers May 10 in Dating & Relationships

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will tell her half of this thing tell her i have u want her opinion on something and when she asks what u tell her there is a girl that i like so much he really is an amazing, down to earth, intelligent girl but she is also my friend and i don't want to ruin our friendship though, and by asking her if she likes me it might make it awkward, but she doesn't seem like the kind of girl that would ruin a friendship just because someone has feelings for the other, Should I just stop worrying about it and ask her or should I just forget about it? and see what she tells u and than tell her that this girl is her

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Just ask her, worst she can say is "no."

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worst is she could think I'm too forward and want nothing to do with me.

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Funny thing is that you said in your post that she doesn't seem like the kind of girl to break off a friendship if you were to do something like this.

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She doesn't but there's no telling what way she could react, she could feel the same way, she could want nothing to do with me, or she could accept that I like her and still continue to be friends with me.

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Just ask her, your a ******* man, aren't you? Men go after what they want, not question themselves constantly, which seems like what you are doing right now.

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That's ignorance. You have to think of other people too, especially when it comes to women because it could ruin my chances with her. When I like someone I don't dive right in and expect them to like me also, I take my time and usually it's worth it.

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It is ignorance to you, only because you aren't me. When I see something I want, I go for it, and I have done quite well with that strategy.

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Just ask her out.

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