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My GF of five years has broke up with me a few times and I have left her a few times. We have been living together the 5 years we have been together. Seems when I leave I am back with her within hours. She will break up and its for weeks! The last two times made it seem so permanent. This last time we ended up getting back together because she needed me to sign off on an insurance check we both had to sign, and that brought us together. She keeps telling me that she leaves a window open for me to get back with her, but seems like I am the one always making the first move. She always says she missed me when we are broke up, but her 12 year old son says his mom was never so happy when we are apart. I don't want to be in a relationship where I am really not loved!

She sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder....although I am not a doctor...I recently left my husband, who has this...

They do things, when you are together, that pushes you away.....(they fear anyone getting too close)....then, when you leave....they are so desperately afraid of being alone....that they want to get back together.....They cannot stand being alone, having to face their self....There is a book on the subject, that is very good....called "I hate you, don't leave me"....you should check it out...

What's going on, is NOT love....it's very dysfunctional....You deserve someone who knows what they want...and has no problem showing it....you shouldn't have to sit around and wonder, if you are loved....you should feel it...and you should know it.....

There are tons of women out there, who would love to get the chance....stop wasting your life on this one...