Looking back, love was just as you describe (a comfortable, warm feeling). A feeling that was so good, I wanted to be around her every second. But looking back, it was all about me. My feelings. Not so much about her. I'm not being critical here, but I honestly don't think it was love. It was the seeds of love that needed to grow. The problem is, you have to examine the other person carefully because it is sooo easy to overlook (or ignore) obvious signs that can tell you whether the person is going to be heaven or hell to live with over the long haul.
if you " arent sure" you arent in love
I went through the same thing with my ex. Exactly. I was fighting to stay with him for so long because we had a son and a daughter. I didn't want to leave him because we knew each others habits and well I didn't want my kids to hate everything they had to grow up with because I didn't feel like I loved him and I definitely didn't feel like he loved me. I loved his family. They were delightful. We're still civil to each other though. Its a tough situation but when enough's enough you have to call it quits. I tried with him for a long time. I'm not saying I woke up one day and decided to leave it took me a long time to decide. I'm not saying our situations are exact but he wasn't trying and I was and it was really hard for me. I felt like he didn't care and things would eventually go wrong and then we would be fighting in front of our kids and they would be crying in the bedroom they would hate it. I think I'd rather have them hate the situation than put them through stuff like that. Its been almost a year and he recently called and apologized for being such 'an *******' (his words not mine) and 'treating me like sh*t'. It depends on your situation. Don't rush the decision and don't let anyone else influence it. I hope everything works out for the best, sorry for the lengthy reply!
Just stay with them and you will know soon enough
When I was in love, it may not have felt all that special and immense and powerful every moment, but the times when it seemed to be falling apart were quite unwelcome. How much would it bother you to be dumped right now?
True love is love that is there even during hardest of times. If all you have is good times, it is hard to know whether it is love that you feel.
"them"? Is there more than one? j/k....seriously love is like a drug. Does it hurt when you are without him/her? If so then yes that is love.
i dont love zeta or the spies or norman smith the black philadelphia crossdresser