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How do I know whether I'm a sub or a switch?

sub = submissive in bondage
switch = both submissive and dominant in bondage
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You know, there's a difference between topping/bottoming and Domming/subbing. Top/Bottom is about the physical side; Dom/sub is about mental play, emotions, mind sets. If you are more focussed on the physical side of things, you don't need to worry about dom/sub dynamics. And if you are a normal, empathic person, you will probably enjoy topping as much as bottoming, because you can understand that your bottom is enjoying those sensations as much as you would in their place.

I always say; "Bottoms switch the minute they find out they can; Tops switch every chance they get."
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:49PM
I guess you don't really "know"anything until you try... do you want to switch? Find a sub who will let you try to Dom, if you like it... go with it.
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 8:50PM
YOU could then be a Sub-Sandswitch
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:30PM
I like the pastrami special
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:11PM
A What or a WHAT?
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:02PM
Huh? I'm guessing that you are talking about what you mean to a woman???? Um..ask.
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:40PM
If you find yourself screaming out, "What did I do wrong, It's not fair, or please have mercy on me," then you are a sub.
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:59PM
I am both theres times i wanna be tied and told what to do.. Other times i want to be the one tying and demanding..
really just depends on my mood.. As long as some one has been cuffed or tied down im happy... oh yeah and pain is sometimes good also, so yes you can be both i believe...
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:23PM
I think it is possible to be both... depending upon your partner. Go with what feels natural to you.
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:19PM
More like a sub-switch.
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Posted Sep 3rd, 2009 at 4:18PM
do u also enjoy dominating? then switch. if not, sub.
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