How do I make a sexual advance on my boyfriend without feeling desperate?
Myself and my boyfriend haven't made love for about 3 months. The longest time was 5 months. We've been dating for 9.
At the start of our relationship, we were doing it almost every time we saw eachother- about twice a week. Then as we got further along in our relationship, the sex-o-meter started to decrease. We had a 5 month dry spell. Then we did it once after that, and that was the last time- 3 months ago.
I keep blaming myself- always putting myself down because I think it's my fault. Am I too ugly? am I too big and too loud? doesn't he love me anymore :(
How can I make the first move without seeming desperate?