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Myself and my boyfriend haven't made love for about 3 months. The longest time was 5 months. We've been dating for 9. At the start of our relationship, we were doing it almost every time we saw eachother- about twice a week. Then as we got further along in our relationship, the sex-o-meter started to decrease. We had a 5 month dry spell. Then we did it once after that, and that was the last time- 3 months ago. I keep blaming myself- always putting myself down because I think it's my fault. Am I too ugly? am I too big and too loud? doesn't he love me anymore :( How can I make the first move without seeming desperate?
maddyoner maddyoner 16-17, F 7 Answers Oct 6, 2010

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So, let me get this straight, you had sex with him 8-9 times in 9 months? <br />
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Are you sure he thinks of you as his girlfriend? I know everyone's experience is different, but in this case I think either there's something wrong with one of you or he's leading you on ...

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thats why women never learn,its a natural funjunion .just grab him by the crouch,I wish ladies would've done that to me

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Just go for it. A woman making the first move is awesome.

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This situation will not improve between you and your "boyfriend."<br />
I seems to me that he only wants to be around you when he wants to have sex, OR, he doesn't want to have sex with you at all. I think that it would be an excellent idea for both of you to agree to date other people.

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There is something seriously really wrong or you are not telling the whole story. This is more of a **** friend in a casual way kind of senerio. Do you date? Hang out together? If I am with a woman, I WANT her. A lot and as often as I can get her. At least for the first 25 years or so, then things cool down a bit.

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