desensitization. that's what psychologist mean about trial and error. some pick up artists say that they learned it like that. they simply crashed and burn everyday until they finally had the ability to pick up women. reading from their experiences will help a lot. anyway you should try to have the mind of a salesman. many salesman get turned down and ignored by ALMOST EVERYONE. they think that if one person doesn't listen to him, then f*uck that stranger and move on to the next. the trick is to not get fazed or intimidated by them in anyway. so simply look at their eyes. imagine a telescope, and focus on her eyes alone. forget everything else, just focus on the eyes and talk. 1 you just talked to a woman. 2 she thinks you're special since you looked at her eyes (they say it is the windows of your soul so definite plus) and not her breasts or legs or any other sexy body part. which makes you a one of a kind guy.
Imagine they are naked when you talk to them....
good lad :)
no, that's terrible advice! lol :-)
Absinthe and a dog.
It sounds like you have low self esteem. I would look up mental health in the yellow pages. You can always try a state run clinic for the lower prices on counseling. You may be depressed. I wish you the best.
It has crippled you in life and it isn't healthy at all. You are eliminating 60% of the people on the face of this earth. Go to talk to a woman counselor and stop puttin up such a fight.
My True response before I read details: Really, you've got to be kidding! Not him! They I read details and I said- AWWWWW, that's about the sweetest thing anyone has done for me in a long time!!!!
I'd blush If I knew how- ;)
Thanks for the BA- a joke for ME and BA- You're gonna spoil me!
Good question. I don't know the answer to this anymore than I know how to overcome my shyness around men.
Cmere U, I'll show ya!
*smiles* I like that....Ya look goood in red :)
Whenever you see one, talk to her.
then in time you'll desensitize yourself and the shyness will fade away.
We are "shy' because we're too used to being shot down and GENERALIZED!!! There are women out there looking for men, don't let them or their b.s. fool you. They WILL hit on YOU if you can carry yourself well and tap into your own personal power which is a bigger aphrodesiac than money or "Axe deoderant"!!! Don't get me wrong you have to have good hygene as much as you have to have a condom in your wallet but when you go out there into the field go there WITHOUT ANY EXPATATIONS and BE YOURSELF. Sooner or later something WILL happen.<br />