How do I say no thanks to dates but in a non-hurtful or non-rude way?
5 Answers to "How do I say no thanks to dates but in a non-hurtful or non-rude way?"
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Saying no to someone without hurting them is about as realistic as inventing a perpetual motion machine. First, realize it's not going to be unhurtful. Second, be kind, considerate, and say nothing beyond "I'm not interested."
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Sorry I have a previous obligations that I can't break.
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Be honest, brief and clear but polite.
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Be polite but honest and direct.
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Posted by Vessa 1 Feb 24th, 2011 at 6:46PM
I think something like, "I'm not interested in dating" said nicely and with a smile is usually accepted pretty well. The guy usually won't know whether you mean that personally or not, and he usually won't be hurt. It only gets complicated when the guy pushes. If that happens, then you could repeat the statement and add, "Tell you what....you can give me your number, and if I change my mind, I'll let you know". Again, said with a smile. If you like the guy (just not enough to date), you can add something like, "You seem very nice, but..."
He should respect your decision. If he questions you with Why not?", then you can firmly and pleasantly say "I have my reasons".
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