Well then you'll be the first gay person who proves them wrong by showing them you're not bad at all.
Try to be proud of who you are .. then others will be more likely to be accepting of you.
You're an adult and are entitled to be who you want to be. Don't live in fear of what others will say ... you'll never find happiness that way.
Though you believe that no one has guessed your secret, it is much more likely that some people have developed suspicions. It has been my experience that some people will use a person's hidden life style as a weapon. They will deride that hidden life style and if the life style is not readily accepted with the group, use it to get others to join in with the bullying. Sometimes they even solicit a response from you, which is a way to manipulate you into bullying yourself.
There is nothing wrong with your sexual preferences. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not a freak. You are not immoral. Claim who you are and hold your head high. By doing so you will disarm those who get thrills from bullying others.
And this is coming from a heterosexual.
Wear GAP stuff.
Explore the gay community. Become friends with other gay people going through a similar situation. This can be your support system. So if your friends and family take it the wrong way you can say..
FUCKKK YOUU! And live a happy life with the people who support you 100%. It's not easy, and I don't recommend this until you are 100% comfortable with your sexuality.
Trust me it took me a while. But it was worth it in the end!
No prob. If you ever feel like talking, I'm always here..
Well I kinda have this same problem, months ago... Although a few persons close to me already know since I let them know. But believe me the best thing you could do is just being yourself. Live life happy without caring what others have to say. Just let time tells, and remember you'll only live once.
If your still single at my age they'll assume you are anyway.
Do you really feel the NEED to tell people. Some will be happier and better off NOT Knowing.
I've noticed that those who attempt to do this find people who think the same, and build a support group. Then they tell their family and such and if it doesn't go very well, they have others to fall back on for support. But either way, you're just going to have to tell them. There isn't an easy way around this
when one DOES tell people, its a librating feeling
Go off to college in a more sexually accepting open place. You'll find the courage there to do so.
just come out with it
wear a manUnited jersey.
Well.............. if that is you in your avi.......... you just did it.
Well done, be happy.
MickyHug for the courageous gayboy (((((SQUEEEeeZE)))))
just leave it alone is my suggestion
You just told us, so why not anyone else?
Are you the girly gay or the gay that can pass as straight?
If your the girly gay they already know
Manly gay may not know
Talk to the person your closest with in your family if they truly love you they'll understand
from your picture, don't think you need to say a word. Pretty easy to spot.
Most have working gaydar, you should be fine. No its not rude, your reading into things to quickly
Have you told ayone?. Pick someone you trust and start from there.
Well you told us, I guess that's a good start.
If you can "out" yourself in a shark tank like this you'll be ok in the real world as well!*
Just relax. It'll happen when it happens.