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How do I tell someone I love them without ruining what we already have?

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    AutumnSwan - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by AutumnSwan Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:33AM

    You can tell them through actions; eventually they will come to understand you love them.

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  1. DcreativeBUG - 22-25 years old

    Reply by DcreativeBUG Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:33AM

    i was going to say the same thing.

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  2. AutumnSwan - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by AutumnSwan Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:42AM

    It's true, isn't it? Especially with men; they tell you through actions, but you have to pay attention. :)

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5 Answers to "How do I tell someone I love them without ruining what we already have?"

  1. bdmthrfkr - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by bdmthrfkr Jun 30th, 2012 at 6:21AM

    What is it that you already have? Are you friends or lovers? Why do you feel you need to tell them? You know, love is felt, sort-of like trust. If the feeling is there, it goes without saying. Are you thinkin they are falling for someone else?

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  2. davish16 - male

    Reply by davish16 Jun 30th, 2012 at 6:28AM

    We're really great friends. I don't want to be just friends though. Everyday, my feelings for this girl get stronger and stronger.

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  3. bdmthrfkr - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by bdmthrfkr Jun 30th, 2012 at 6:56AM

    Did she recently become single or something? Was it a friend of yours that she was with?

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  4. Purplekitt - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Purplekitt Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:50AM

    My Grandfather never did,
    My Nana would always say I love you and he'd just say "ok" they were happily married for 60years and while he never said the words I love you you could see it every time he looked at her and the things he did for her.
    I think people for to much in these words, actions speak so much louder and truly mean so much more.

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  5. Cainamythgimoj - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Cainamythgimoj Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:37AM

    Well the trouble is is that it is very difficult to do that. Telling someone you love them always has a risk that your relationship will be wrecked. Also doing it through actions doesn't always work either. This is because some girls will recognise what you are trying to put across through actions and just think that you don't have the courage to actually ask them out or anything. They could then get angry at this.
    Sorry if it doesn't make any sense....

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  6. paclark - 31-35 years old

    Posted by paclark Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:34AM

    Nothing risked nothing gained. You could tell her. But you know her the best. How might she react? Does she view you as a friend only or do you get the sense that she feels more?

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