How do i turn my back on the addiction with out turninging it on my brother?
5 Answers to "How do i turn my back on the addiction with out turninging it on my brother?"
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Listen, You will do him a better justice by fixing yourself. Although it may seem difficult at first, you have to be able to say to yourself I am tired of the negative effects my brothers actions have brought to my life. You won't be turning your back on your brother you will be giving him an option. Offer an ultimatum, give him the opportunity to continue a life with you. Say, If you continue this negative behavior I will no longer stay in contact with you and support your addiction.
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thanks this realy helps i been looking for a way to word it.
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No problem. I hope everything works out for the best.
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You know that you can only control yourself and no other.
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You should both do it together...
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depends what it is; how hard it is to hide/what else it affects
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it is affecting every one and every thing
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Posted by 3kneeB Dec 29th, 2012 at 1:37AM
Work on you, be a power of example and when he complains you have it better than him tell him when he is ready you are willing to show the way. No nagging involved since active addicts tend to hate that. You can't control the actions of another.
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Reply by thenewestdaughter Dec 29th, 2012 at 1:38AM
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Reply by 3kneeB Dec 29th, 2012 at 1:41AM
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