In general it is more about the dom getting to know the sub enough that he can dominate her in a mental sense. Cams are useful at first but down the line, when a sub comes to rely on her dom she will want him to log on, she will wait for him and this is where he can easily punish her If he wishes to. It is about discussing not just everyday life but opening up to the dom in a way that you then feel that they have an upper hand over you I have found myself.<br />
As you cannot submit to them physically it is important to submit mentally. Cam is fun at first but for it to continue for any length of time it must be ba<x>sed on more.
This is exactly right. Very true. Well put.
wow at the comments. <br />
online D/s M/s relationships can only work if B/both parties are of an equal mindset.<br />
one must be able to mentally split between the tangible reality and the online one.<br />
the Masters and Mistresses who care and are worthy are the Ones who take time to get to know Their slave; They do not push slave to overwork his or herself. They do not demand the hottest sex They can have up front.<br />
be extremely careful when meeting an online Master/Mistress for the first time and be sensitive to the information that you give out. <br />
a True Master/Mistress will want slave to be comfortable in the situation and therefore more desiring to please.
Seen a few references to it here and there, not my kind of thing really so guessing here. Perhaps the Dom requires the Sub to have webcam to prove they are actually do as instructed? Or sends them photos as prove? Must work somehow for them.
No I don't play well with others haha.
Only the real ones. Most of the online ones are a joke.
online has it's limitation but you can be held accountable for your life, although the impact and punishment is somewhat limited. Remember that this is a very much a mind thing.
They don't really. One side fantasizes, the other might. They go through the motions and have the big power switch if they get to deep. Plus, the bonus is, the words on the screen can claim to be any gender they want.
Yes if you have Skype or some way to view each other. Wanna try it?
Yes, if the connect is there.
same as in real life - power exchange begins at a capillary-level
that master-slave stuff is just the dramatic sexual representation
Online yes. In real life, it is more about structure and control.
possibly the use of webcams help !