How do u fix things when ur best friend & boyfriend are fighting & neither want to make the first move to resolve things
Okay, so my best friend and boyfriend got into a fight about a month ago because I went out with my friend with no money after telling my boyfriend I couldn't go out with him the night before because of that same reason. (He had a right to be annoyed at me and we're all good so that's not the issue here..) I voiced to my friend that my bf was angry at me for just being out (which at the time I thought was the reason he was mad) Anyways, the situation escalated with my friend abusing my boyfriend through multiple text messages about how he treats me badly (which he doesn't) and all this other ****, while ignoring my pleas to stop and leave it alone. Of course he stood up for himself and flung a few retorts back and it got real messy. The night ended in me walking off multiple times bawling and yet it wasn't til 3am in the morn she clicked that it was upsetting me. Now everythings awkward and they're both being stubborn and she's especially being pigheaded and it's all screwed up. HELP!!
3 Answers to "How do u fix things when ur best friend & boyfriend are fighting & neither want to make the first move to resolve things"
Posted by Bptvlk14 Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:24AM
Smash their heads together and tell them to grow up.
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Posted by niksal Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:23AM
go shopping until it's done...
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Posted by JustPlainBarb Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:18AM
You get them together in the same room and tell them both to grow up. Tell them you care about both of them and want them to find a way to get along.
They have to resolve their differences on their own.
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