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How do u heal a heart that can't feel, it's broken?

I can't do anything to help her, she's been feeling pain for so long, what can i do? When im with her, what should i say to make her feel better? P.s. Im her friend, im not the one with a broken heart

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  1. Cachinga - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Cachinga Sep 16th, 2012 at 7:10PM

    It will heal as soon as she starts to feel again. Don't push let her do it on her own.

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  2. Dolta - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Dolta Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:58PM

    They say that time heals all wounds but all it do is give you more time to think about how much you miss that person that broke it... Its actually up to her when she's ready to let go she will its all a matter of choice and unfortunately there's very little you can do, for now you can just be there for her when she needs kleenex or a shoulder to cry or someone to lash out on or drinking buddy

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  3. LittleBearPooky - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by LittleBearPooky Apr 8th, 2012 at 1:12PM

    At least u told me what i can do

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  4. MiniBryant - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by MiniBryant Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:42PM

    You probably will never be able to do anything for her. The only way she will snap out of it is if she meets someone who is genuinly good to her that she learns to trust. It's like a spell she has to be awakened from by only a special person to her.

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  5. bongus - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bongus Apr 8th, 2012 at 1:10PM

    time is the only thing that ever works for this. as for what to say, "i'm here for you" is pretty quick and to the point. you don't really need to say anything else. if it's been going on a long time, it's time to start doing. the more stuff to fill her time and her life, the better. keep her busy.

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  6. duramater06 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by duramater06 Apr 8th, 2012 at 1:00PM

    she is lucky to have someone who wants to make her feel happy. I hope she realizes this. Everyone heals in their own time, usually when the right person comes along. Maybe she is not ready for you yet or she is too scared? Help her to trust you, if that is an issue.

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  7. LifesGardener - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by LifesGardener Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:57PM

    I'm afraid that the harsh reality to life on this earth is that in the moment it seems just that-harsh. Feeling as if your heart is broken is by far the harshest life lesson to overcome. Quite frankly, it SUCKS.
    Sometimes even just admitting it and giving it a bit of space works. "IT SUCKS." Just saying the truth about it can work. "IT SUCKS!" Stand up right now. Put your arms up and proclaim, "It sucks over and over." I just lost a family member last week and the first thing I thought was, "it sucks!"
    Now grab a hug from me. Because as much as our heart breaks, it never leaves us without a place for love.

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  8. RRK1 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by RRK1 Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:44PM

    If her heart doesn't feel, then she's very fortunate. I would think you should just leave her alone.

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  9. TimeCounts - 31-35 years old

    Posted by TimeCounts Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:43PM

    By deploying a paradox?

    It will heal in time, it just doesn't feel like it right now. Cliche I know, but true.

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  10. LittleBearPooky - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by LittleBearPooky Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:47PM

    I can't change time! What can i do?

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  11. TimeCounts - 31-35 years old

    Reply by TimeCounts Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:51PM

    I know it sucks to hear but you just have to wade through it. Accept that you will soon start to feel better and you will soon start to feel better. Not much better at first but better and then a little better again until one day you will wake up and reaslise you are ok again. Try to focus on the other people and things in your life that are good and trust me on this; all the good things you think you have lost you will have again with someone new.

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  12. timanonymous - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by timanonymous Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:41PM

    If you kill her you don't have to think about her anymore.

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  13. MiniBryant - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by MiniBryant Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:42PM

    Really? Teaching hate to the general public huh?

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  14. timanonymous - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by timanonymous Apr 8th, 2012 at 12:43PM

    He asked a question. I provided an answer. It was a successful transaction.

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