good question, I've been wondering about this too. can you please tell me if you have the best answer? :)
Thats something you have to discover for your self
I guess by having life experience
We can only see ourselves when we are reflected in the reactions and responses of others... thus, if you chose to ignore me, then I would see that you have not yet discovered how to learn from me.
The longer you live, the more you discover about yourself :)
yeah we should...but discovering oneself is spontaneous ..it happens just like tat