If you constantly need to keep him interested, he probably isn't the guy for you.
I don't *try* to keep his interest. he can stay as long or short as he wants to! I don't feel I should have to "do" anything to "keep his interest" because he either wants to be around me for ME, or he doesn't. Either is fine :) The greatest thing we can do, I think, is be completely who we are without trying to be something we think they'll like more. You like all of me, or you like none of me. period.
I agree. And what you speak of is freedom. Freedom to be yourself, and freedom for him to be himself, and what will be will be.
exactly :) nothing needs to be forced, i think things feel best when both people are just.. being.
Intelligent women always win.
apart from above mentioned they want a free housemaid, a cook, a cleaner, event-organizer, admin assistant, walking memory (even for where his clothes are which he scattered around), a mom for their kids if they want any, oh, yeah and gr8 if you could pay the bills,too! who wouldnt want that...
I think the best way is to stay connected with him. If I listen well and he listens well, and we work together to do for each other the things that make us feel loved.... then the interest never wanes. <br />
But it has to be a two way street. If only one of us is doing this, you're fighting a slow, losing battle. <br />
Don't be afraid to try anything at least once in your life!
I think some men let their wife wear the trousers while some refuse to accept that she wears them whatever he thinks . My point is if you let them wear the trousers, occasionally they let you try them on ;)
When in a relationship, you have to make sure there's a friendship.. because once the little spark leaves there needs to be something to keep you guys united. Try to switch things up from time to time, since monotony is no bueno. But always keep in mind that we can never make a person stay with us, they will only stay if they want to.
They want a woman who gives him space to be himself. Not trying too hard. They want a woman who is interesting and has her own interests, and not living her life through him. They want a woman who is confident in herself, and takes care of herself. Oh yes, and they usually want a women who likes sex and gets pleasure from having it with him.
In most relationships men and women seem to be working against each other. I imagine this to be very tiresome and annoying. Better be a team. Be on his side, defend him, mock the people he doesn't like.<br />
Men usually want to be alpha males. Most aren't, but if you can make them feel like it, that's a big plus. Praise him, reward him, talk low of people he doesn't like. Remind him of how much better he is. Stuff like that. Of course sex and sandwiches play a major role in all of this!
Talk low of people he doesn't like? Just to get a man to like you? God give me strength. If a man likes you, he likes you. You don't have to try hard to keep a man around who wants to be with you. A woman should be herself, and that includes not bringing others down just to bring others up a notch. This is purely ego.
Sex. that is what they say to me more and more they<br />
sex, sex, and more sex
Both have to be interested and interesting.
This should be interesting
If they keep wanting to discover me, I will continue working to discover them.
You need to be mysterious and awaken his curiosity about you... Don't always be available... Make sure your life is well balanced and that he is only part of it... You are worth a lot on your own and he is just there to compliment your happiness not to be responsible for it...