Take some time to find out who you really are. Self confidence will develop, which is the key to everything. Confidence is not to be confused with arrogance.
JUST FIGURE OUT WHO U ARE, AND LIKE YOUSELF
IF THEY STILL GET A BD VIBE FROM U>THEN THEY'RE THE WRONG PEOPLE FOR U TO BE AROUND>AND IT'S THEIR PROBLEM>NOT YOURS
What you see is what you get. I don't need people to approve of me. I know who I am. You could not find a more loyal or generous friend.
If you are getting this from different people, in different groups, different ages. Maybe you should talk to a behavioral specialist.
I'm not trying to be rude and most likely what others have posted is correct don't change yourself for what a couple of people say. Every buddies a ******* critic. But, again if it's coming from all over the place, maybe you should talk to someone. I for one trust my instincts they are usually right, if someone gives me a bad vibe I stay away from them.
Doesn't mean they are a bad person, sometimes they are just going threw a bad time in their life and you can pick up on that.
If you truly believe your putting something off, that people are picking up on, it might be a warning sign to some under the surface emotional trauma. I'm no doctor, this is just speculation.
Of course maybe you're just not a people person and you need to refine your social skills. Don't get me wrong don't change yourself. Learning how to get your idea's, wants, needs across to others clearly without wierding them out is not changing yourself or wrong.
Best of Luck
They are in the wrong if you have given them no cause to feel negatively. I am judged every day.... I tell them to GO AWAY.
What makes you think it isn't on purpose? Well, it's better than using musk like skunks do to keep others at bay.
No one gets bad vibes from me unless I shoot 'em bad vibes on purpose. >:-/
Why would you change unless they have a reason to have bad vibes and you pick up on that......
I've been trying to figure that out.
I seem to repell people, can't make a friend to save my life and it's not that I'm a bad person or bitchy. It just happens I guess...