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How do you cope when the one you love gives you up?

This would mark my friends' first real relationship, his gf broke it off with him the other night, he is devastated to say the least.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 4:11PM
Walk away
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 1:36PM
It took six months of grieving and the care and love of a new woman friend during hours I wasn't working to get me through every day after a 23 year marriage surprisingly had the plugged pulled from out of nowhere! It was devastating! I was not intimate with my lady friend because I told her I was formally divorced yet and anything can happen! I ended up marrying my lady friend six years later!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 2:40PM
I remember when my first real boyfriend broke up with me. I was devastated too. Angry, sad, depressed, wanting to kill him half of the time, and the other half of the time wanting him back.

But life goes on, and time heals all wounds. I still look back on the times we spent together and I even miss him sometimes. You never forget your first love.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 1:57PM
not well for me
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 2:27PM
Well you wake up every morning, you go to work, and you live life to it's fullest. And you never forget the love and affection you had with your girlfriend, and you always remember the good times you both had...and in time you'll be just fine.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 2:56PM
you need to pick yourself up and keep going.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 3:33PM
It is hard and I can relate to that.I was married for 20 years and he decided he doesn't want to be with me anymore.I was depressed and have taken anti-depression medication.But I've moved on.Your friend will too.Time heals all wounds and I'm sure he will meet someone else and be a lot happier.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 4:07PM
You appreciate that you parted at a point when you still loved them and not the point when the sight of them simply made you sick!
Be proud of the loves you've had not ashamed. .
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 5:55PM
You just have to encourage your friend to charge it to experience and move on. Tell him that there will be certainly be someone who will come along who will value and reciprocate the love that he is offering. He needs all the support that he can get from you. :)
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