I would question the basic premise first. Are you certain that she is those things? Can you read her mind? Is she perhaps a mirror to you? The second thing I would do is to recognize that everybody is flawed, some more deepy than others, and so there isn't much to deal with. Let her be, and avoid her if you aren't feeling emotionally strong. Hurt people hurt people.
Deal with her or him in a mature fashion. Don't lower yourself to their level. Tell them the truth ib the most polite and mature way, then if they still don't agree with what you have said, just walk away.
Expose their own flaws
I just don't deal with them at all.
Give it to God and allow God, who loves us and knows each of us, to handle His know-it-all children. <br />
People like her, always find out.....usually the hard way, that their **** stinks too and they don't really know as much as they thought they did. Then they become depressed because they aren't better than everyone else. LMBO!!!<br />
Today, I dealt with some know-it-all ***** like you just described. She stood there acting all cocky because the law supported her ignorance. She assumed that I was there buying cigarettes for my best friend, who is 30 years old, btw....which I was not even there for. I was there for a lottery ticket and they wouldn't sell me that either, in case it was for my friend....who can't find her ID right now....she has 4 kids and is a bit busy. Anyways, I popped off at the cocky ***** who stood there smiling because she felt like she had won or done something good. I called her a stupid ***** and I'd have her job. She looked smug as she nodded no. They called the cops, who informed me...wrongly but none the less, he told me that she had the right (her only right) to refuse service to me, for any reason. By whose laws? Not God's....not Constitutionally or Civilly. Their own selfish, power tripping right maybe but just like every other lawless person before her, she will soon get a reality check. That is one check that I have learned is not one that I want owed to me. LMBO. :-)<br />
Anyways, good luck and God bless you, whatever happens.
Ignore her some people get joy from screwing with others don't give them the satisfaction.if u must find a way to knock her down a few pegs everyone has there weaknesses and no one is better than anyone:)
Let me tell people this: You think that you can kick my *** try it because you will lose. Also, you idiots are crazy on this site because you are not that great. Look at yourself in the mirror and take a real good look at yourself and then you can look at me. What will people say about me: Damn she is beautiful and sexy as hell. Good LUCK! ALL I WANT TO SAY IS THIS: GET A JOB AND QUIT SAYING YOU ARE GOING TO KICK SOMEONE'S ***! GROW UP AND SPEND YOUR TIME TRYING AND DOING A GOOD DEED FOR SOMEONE TO MAKE THAT PERSON HAPPY WHOEVER IT MAY BE. CHEERISH
Your ******* psycho. Go **** yourself.
We knew someone like that and we had to ditch them. For all the nice things about them, they just were not worth the stress. Only people who lived with this person would realize what they were like. On the outside, they were Super-Nice. But they weren't going to give up until we sold our house and moved in with them, and we just were not going to do that. <br />
Don't answer the phone. Change your phone number if you have to. Put their emails and IMs on block. If you are in any communities or discussion boards on line that they are on, leave them. Don't let them get their hooks into you in any way. <br />
You ignore them and do your own thing.<br />
They hate that.
I married one, then divorced her.
Tell her what you just said
You don't deal with it. You tell them to get their act straight. If they don't, you kick their sorry butt and stay away from them. There are few things worse than being self-righteous AND abrasive.
Get out of her range.
My spouse is awfully merciless, abusive & act like a dictator in my home. I cannot sing in my home, i cannot make decision etc. I need to obey, pay all household bills. Out of 1000 issues, she'll right a thousand times. Out of a 100 of my proposals, none is acceptable by her. When she condemn me, accuse me of things i never do etc, these actions to her are called 'love'. She really believe i will be 'imprisoned for life n be curse & condemn by her daily. After over a 20 year period, my God finally set me free.