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I have two kids, both 21 (long story, not twins) the one I'm closest to is in college full time and now has a girlfriend he's gotten really close to - which is great, they seem to mesh really well together and both keep in mind finishing school before getting too serious. My problem is I'm a single parent, havn't dated in 15 years - and am now going slightly crazy. I don't want to bring down my son because he's doing everything right. I tried Eharmony for a year when he started college but got no-where, work is a bust for social connections, I'm not church affiliated...........what do I do to not go depressed nuts?

My mother is going through this, I am her youngest and am 16 so she is feeling a touch of empty nest syndrome, what I suggest is finding what you enjoy in life again. It sounds as if you have done a magnificent job with your boys and now it is time to focus on yourself.
Look at your life see what it is lacking and work on that, spend more time with friends, or join some clubs.
Do what make you happy before your children, this phase will pass and you will be back to enjoying life, you will always be a mother but the huge responsibility bit is over they are adults.

Well Done, and goodluck.

AvalonX