Smart. Doesn't feel like having to deal with kids yelling and running around. also, everyone with kids will leave early, theoretically, because they have someone taking care of their kids. I don't know if that's a plus or not.
It is a choice, after all humanity is not exactly on the endangered species list.
I understand it, but find it rather tough. Children are part of society. However, that is their choice, as it is also the choice to accept or refuse an invitation.
For whom is it tough? Is it tough for you that they get to run their marriage how they please? Or is it tough for them that they get to live the way they want to?
Where is the tough part?
none of my business; why'd you ask?
I'd say "this seems like a perfectly acceptable situation". But then, I did exactly this.
The meaning and purpose of marriage is the biological union that joins two families in blood. If you aren't not intending to join your families in the blood of your children, you are not talking about a real marriage.
So the infertile cannot have a "real" marriage?
Sounds like a load of bullsh1t to me.
Yes, your sick bullshit does not create children nor form a real marraige.
Nor does it seethe with hatred, as you sadly do.
My wife didn't want to have children. I was fine with her decision. She also didn't want to get married either. I respected both of her decisions. In time she changed her mind and we got married and she is now pregnant but if she hadn't changed her mind I would still be fine with it. I love her with or without children.
look arounf do youreally wantto bring kids up in this world where there is no respect of any thing or any one we have gone from one of the greastes nation in the world to really nothing we rules by fears and might all so the rich can take more jobs over seas and we have to pay people to sit home and do nothing with tax credits
this is not the world i remember being sold to us when i was a child even drops outs could read and write and do math and think
now we follow and think waht others tell us
and yes we knew we never could have kids weven at 13 years old when we married
It seems to me whoever that person is, they have looked at this tragic world and don't want the fact they brought a child into it on their conscience.
I'd say whoever that is, is a realist, I'd stick with that person and rely on their advice, they're solid and sensible.
Too many people are bringing children into this world without looking at the long term situation.
We are in a Global Financial Crisis, things haven't improved, they're getting worse.
Please don't bring children into this, it will be decades, if ever, before this recovers, meantime this world is going to be a shocking place for all concerned.
Why should I feel anything? They're probably smart since they don't follow what the society says and don't have kids because they don't want kids.
Imagine the life of an unwanted child...
I am beyond the age of having children and go my junk snipped, so I have no problem with it.
Can't be mad at them for what they want. It's like being mad at them for the colors they chose for the wedding
That's like putting on a condom and not wanting sex. Marriage serves no function but to set up the legal basis for child support after the divorce. Otherwise all they've done is have a party to tell people that they love each other.