How do you feel about friends with benefits? Could you handle it?

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Posted by Bitto69 Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:33PM

Isn't that for people who can't get it elsewhere?

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Reply by Vries Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:41PM

No it ain't. I got both a bf and several friends with benefits. So yes I am cheating on him but that's not bad because he cheats on me as well.
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Posted by Delilah5 Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:32PM

"Friends with benefits" are not allowed in my life. ECK!

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Posted by stehig1 Aug 1st, 2012 at 1:24PM

I have several friends with benefits..both male and female...I like the arrangement There is no jealousy to get in the way...no possessiveness either

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Posted by originalmadman Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:04PM

good thing yes I have handled it and may again someday. a short polite conversation b4 hand is all it takes.....Ino ino sometimes theres not much talking b4hand:)

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Posted by Curious2u Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:02PM

My wife is my best friend, so that solves that

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Posted by Dolta Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:49PM

Well I dont think there's such a thing as friends with benefits and it can never work

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Posted by Vries Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:44PM

Yes I can, I got several and on top of that I got a bf as well.

Now you wonder, how do I do that? Doesn't my bf get jealous? No, it actually works great because of our "cheat and be cheated" agreement. This means we both allow each other to cheat. I **** with other guys and he ***** with other girls, but in the end we still love each other.

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Reply by Dolta Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:48PM

Wow so he isnt much of bf neither are you his gf you just ppl who fckng each other and others all will nilly
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Reply by Vries Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:59PM

No, there's a huge difference. In order to handle friends with benefits you need to seperate love and sex in your mind. I did and so did my bf. I got sex with my friends, but I don't love them. I only love my bf.
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Posted by Varmlander Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:34PM

No I probably couldn't.

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Posted by friesel Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:34PM

nope there is a fine line between a friend and more than a friend, i personally feel that waiting tilll marriage is the best time to share your body with another.

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Posted by gargamel68 Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:33PM

Don't know, never had one.

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Posted by MichaelVictoria Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:33PM

men handle it better than women, but that's just my impression.

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Posted by ChipmunkErnie Jul 30th, 2012 at 1:32PM

I'm not that lucky.

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