ASK THEM TO TAKE OUT THE TRASH>THEN AFTER THEY'VE GONE OUT, LOCK YOUR DOOR
You smile and say: Well, time to go to sleep. Busy day tomorrow. It was nice visiting with you. Please have a nice drive home!" Then they will make some comments. You basically walk them to the door always with a smile and a happy disposition all the while thanking them for stopping by. Then you walk them out wave at them with a smile on your face as they drive away. Mission accomplished.
PLEASE...get out of my house!
First Make them Feel Valued & appreciated if your honestly feel that way -
* I have really enjoyed your company today!
**I do not want to sound rude but I have to get a few things sorted out...
***Thanks so much for the well earned break & cuppa I should be right to go again....
****What are you going to do for the rest of the day....?
(As You Begin Walking toward the door) Its been great... we will have to do this again at some FUTURE TIME!!!
I have to say this sort of stuff quite often. As I do alot of my work from home - it is easy for others to conclude that you are not really doing anything of major importance.
I love a cuppa & a chat...But in the past I have been extremely tolerant...Only realize I was being rather hypocritical.
I would rather someone tell me that they have to get back to work than to tolerate me being there - wishing like MAD that I wasn't!!
YOU ARE ALL CALLING ME RUDE AREN'T YOU!!!!!!
BYE BYE BYE
Turn the lights off and let out your guard dogs to roam freely around your home.
If the person wasn't being rude by over staying their welcome there wouldn't be an issue. When I'm tired I will say to them I am tired and I want to relax and I will see you another time. Also no one stops by my house without calling first. It's something that you make acquaintances aware of from the beginning so that they won't assume the can just pop up when the mood hits them. It is very irritating and if someone has an issue with anything that I have said to them then they are not meant to be friends. YOU have the right to say who can and when they can come around you and yours. When you need to be direct then be direct. You'll get respect that way and they will remember.
Try , me and the spouse want to have sex tonight , your cutting into that time . Not to rush you , I know the feeling about being rushed , Come on! hurry up! finish will you ! ;)
"It's getting late..." or "I have to..."
Start talking about the sponsored walk you're going on and tell them about the vast amounts others have contributed. They notice the time pretty quickly.
Don't say a word just walk through the house naked or get a mean *** Dog that hates her...
So these two sixth grade girls are my neighbors and are at my house constantly and are sososososososos annoyingggg!!! They are two black girls (not trying to be rasist) so they always have an attitude. they always are messing stuff up or like spilling on my white carpet, when i tell them not to eat/drink in my room they yell at me and say "gosh, dont have to be so bossy!" it'd be different if they cleaned it up, but of course they dont. and it probabily dosent help that thier mom and my mom are like best friends! And they are also constantly burping, farting, and spitting on me. They're so immature!!!!! And they tell my mom every little thing i do bad, and sometimes they even LIE to my mom. And of corse, my mom believes them, not me. They constantly call me names and curse at me like and call me a ***** right in front of my 10 yr. Old sister and then laugh. I tell them its not funny but they continue to do it. Its this and sooooo much more, the list just would not stop!!!!!! But anyways... im in 7th grade.
I know this isnt an anwser but i think im dealing with ur same problem. Sorry :(
Mention the strong urge you recently felt to have a ********* with a cat and another person, they ain't ever coming back!
Say that you are going to see your nan or aunt, say that its getting late or act grumpy so that person wants to leave
Tell them to glue their thumbs to their nipples and act like a T-rex.
act really crazy and scare them out of your house
We have a friend who will say, " good night and please see that the cat is put out as you go."
Offer them tea and coffee every 15 minutes. They'll get the hint.
Stand up quietly and go to bed!