im trying to get over someone i thought was my soulmate. its very hard..
dont think you ever do
Breakups are alwayas hard! I agree...BUt look arround u...Who didnt had a breakup in their life?I would say almost...almost all of us...THeres a time limit for every thing.....U have to get over it......****...how many years you wated for tis *** hole?
Come on.....its time to move on....I guess you never made any effort to find a new guy...
G out...go to bar....find some good guys and hang out with them and you will be amazed how easy it is to forget him........Have a life lady!
there are more souls, mate.
but in all seriousness im sorry. you fell under the one and only curse of being gorgeous.
You're just ******. Everything about your story says you had every reason to get over him and move on with your life, and you didn't. He was a **** to you, he was sleeping with other women, and he wasn't even interested in telling you he clearly didn't want to be with you anymore. Yet you claim he's your "soulmate" because you haven't found anything better to obsess over. You really need to move on. You've wasted 14 years on Cap'n Douche-Nuts and you're forecasting - what - another 7 years? 14 years? Move the **** on already! Get out there and do something with your life. Hard to forget someone when you have nothing else to think about. Jesus ****.
I think your comment pegged out the assertive meter and creeped towards sadistic
Well I object....
i would suggest you two things and advise you a cure
suggestions no 1 --- as long as they lusts and not loves the new girl its almost all right , he does not love the new girl ( it is just for sexx ) . if the guy is blind enough to fall in love with the new girl , then he is worth less .
suggestion no 2 --- try not feeling hurt , just act calm and let him know that you still love him ( with a stern face ) . and see how he responds . it can come out posative .
the trick to forgetting him is long and complicated , ill send you a personel message .
Gee send me that Help to because. I can kinda relate.Is 7 years the Magic number for it to be over?
Only way you might possibly be able to get over a true soul mate
is if you can find another soul mate.
But its so freakin hard to find even ONE soul mate its virtually
impossible to find 2.
You never get over a soul mate. Mine died in the Asian tsunami
back in 2005. I think about him every day, (and night).
Thanks. I have a wonderful b/f these past 6 years
but I never compare him to Hau. It wouldn't be fair.
You may know that a soulmate is absolutely creepy
how they are so much part of you & know you better
than you know yourself. Once they are gone you have
lost the better part of yourself, so you must go on
living with that part missing. I am forever changed
from who I was, so I'm thankful to have found someone
who puts up with me.
Let me get this straight..."he stopped coming around as much?" So you like dated for seven yrs and never moved in together? Helloooooo....you must be a natural blond. This soulmate thing was obviously one sided. But I can see why you are stuck on this guy ....it's not like there are a million other guys in the world
It's happened to me as well, but hey pining for 7 years, get yourself together and move on.
He probably wasn't your "soul mate" as you put it, and you should just get on with your life. Go meet some new people and don't think about him.
If its a true soul mate, only death can separate you.
This because each of you becomes the better half
of each other, and you can't stand to be apart. My
soulmate and I both quit our jobs so we could work
a job together and never be away from each other.
We were together 24-7 and loved it. If its not like that
its not a true soul mate.
We were together 24-7 and loved it. If its not like that its not a true soul mate. This I believe.
perhaps you're too focused on ba