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How do you get over someone that doesn't desire you anymore?

Posted 4 months ago
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first off, leave them alone. then surround yourself by loved ones, fill your time doing things that make you happy, be honest with yourself about your feelings and keep a journal... it helps to let it out and you can be totally honest with yourself... above all else give it time. don't rush into anything or it will only make you feel worse. you may never get over the person. hell, i still love my x and i have absolutely no reason to at all. you will get over the hurt feelings and the longing and desire for him and you will gradually be ok. it sucks to feel this way. my heart goes out to you. soon this will all be a memory. good luck to you!
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LivingAlone
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 7:14PM
I don't suppose you're going to get over it straight away, but if someone doesn't want you then to me there's no point in being in the frame of mind that you are never going to get over them.

Just do other things to take your mind off it, or hang around with friends. And if you need to, talk about it with someone that will make you feel better.
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DreamWizard
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 7:15PM
Knowing that "Real" Love is Reciprocal (mutually corresponding).

Once this knowledge is completely understood, it is easy for one to shed the attachment from the person who does not love you and to move forward into finding one who does.
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ShadowofDoubt
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 10:19AM
There really is no straight answer to this, just give it time. Do things for yourself, you'll still have those moments when you think of them.
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NiceNMyWorld
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 10:20AM
Time and distraction, and being kind to yourself in little ways= rent the movies they hated or buy expensive dark chocolate, or go to the thrift store and find the batgain of a lifetime, or get a pet- whatever you feel like! . IMHO its not a good idea to pursue them or jump into another relationship too soon.And start journaling the whole experience for 15 minutes a day then put it away. Next time this or something similar happens you will have a roadmap and realize you are more resilient than you thought. ONLY 15 min a day though or you will depress yourself worse!
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bully1981
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 10:42AM
Above all, you need to believe you are worthy of someone who desires you as much as you desire them.

If you can do this, you will soon find that you have little time for those who don't.

The loss of love hurts, give yourself time to grieve. Remember the good memories, and be glad for the good times.
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whatsupapplepie
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 11:43AM
Keep yourself occupied with other things in life. Eventually you'll start thinking about them less and less.

I picked up a hobby (polaroid photography) and started going out places more even if it was by myself. When I did things by myself, I met a lot of interesting people. It's easier to start conversation with an individual than a group of people.
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Rosebud1970
Posted Jul 14th, 2009 at 2:25PM
Try to hate them. Find things about them that you dislike(d) and then ask yourself: do I really want to be with such a person going forward?
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