How do you get over trust issues/ insecurity after being cheated on?
In my first serious relationship, I found out after 9 months that the guy I was dating was engaged to a girl finishing her studies in a different state.... I was so in love with him and I really trusted him. I trusted everything he said, and really let him into my heart... After finding out and confronting him about his cheating, I went through a period of depression. It got better and I was finally able to truly forgive him a year later. However, I'm realizing now that it has affected me more than I imagined... Every guy I start to date, I can't seem to take away doubts about if what they're saying is true. Even if it's the smallest thing, I still question if he's being honest.. How do I overcome this?