How do you get someone back when its seemingly impossible?

You don't get him back. You let him move on with his life while you move on with yours. Life will be much easier and better that way for you if you don't look back at the past in terms of that ex.

Looking back at the past when it comes to bad relationships and breakups and the rest of the crap that life throws at you does you no good...trust me, I've been there. (((hugs))) You'll get through it girl :)

He has made a tough choice that has less to do with you and more to do with his unborn child. he may not be in love with her and miss you horribly, but he's made his choice for the childs sake. I'm not saying it may be the best choice (relationships based on love work better than the ones based on getting preggers).

The best thing you can do is move on and give him the space he needs. He may decide down the road that that isn't the woman for him. But you cant be waiting around being stagnant waiting for him. Move on with your life, and if things work out down the road where you can be together then it was meant to be.

good luck, its a tough spot to be in.

I'm sorry to hear that. It's always tough seeing the one you love with someone else. But... I think you have to let him go. He's about to be a father, and that just complicates your situation much more. Move on with your life. It'll hurt now, but you'll be glad you did later. Besides, you shouldn't chase after him. You're worth more than that. If he wants to come back, he will. And if he doesn't, then even better for you. I know this sounds a little mean, but you need someone without baggage. Find someone who can give himself entirely to you. You deserve it.

sorry to hear that. i know it hurts.. but you know.. he's moved on. and so should you.
Most men are silly... some don't know what's good for them. the best thing you can do is find another guy, and show him that you are the best thing for him.
It's difficult i know. But if he's moving on that quick.. is he worth it? find someone who'll love you with all the world, and never let go.

You have to ask yourself an unbearable question. The answer will seem impossible but try and look ahead 6 monthe, a year and onwards. What will give you peace of mind and true happiness? At the moment nothing seems to make much sense, but step back and breath, look deep inside yourself as you already know the answer. No option will be easy inthe short term but look further than that.

Sweetie, men are such pigs. Women can be too. Hell the Human race is full of lying cheating bastards. You can't force him to love you, thank God you arent the pregnant one, he is playing you both. The best way to get over somebody, is to get under somebody (And use protection!)

the best revenge is to move on and be fabulous! just fake it for a while and one day you'll wake up & it'll be true! you can do it!!!

you love him and you do not want to make giving him up an option, but everything EVERYTHING happens for a reason. i was chasing a girl for 5 months trying to get her back and its just a giant waste of time. youre just stuck on him at the moment, trust me there is someone else and you probaly think he is "the one" but you are sorely wrong. theres 6 billion people in the world not just you and him

He has to want to come back.
You can move on...I had to let go of the love of my life, it hurts still, but I am still looking forward to a brighter day.

You don't want him. He's bullshit.

You poor thing. What a difficult situation to be in. It breaks my heart just reading it. My advice is just to let things be, dont interfere and dont try to get him back. Move on in your life. If you find someone new, make sure hes absolutely free to love you and has no ties whatsoever, that way you wont have these complications in future. Whoever you end up with down the road is going to be one helava lucky fella. This poor lad has no idea what hes letting go of. Take Care. muwa.

The guy is going to be a father. Maybe he is trying to do the right thing and be with the mother and that's why he is cutting you off. Honestly, what kind of man leaves the side of a woman pregnant with his kid? Too much strong of a link for you to break without hurt.

I am sorry that this happened to you, but he is not worth getting back. Just say a prayer for him and the woman and move on. He is not worth all of the stress. Also, do not take him back when his relationship does not work out.

You don't get people back. He's made a decision and he's not likely to change it.

It hurts, and it hurts bad, I know. But guys can do that - a minute ago, you're all his life but when he decides that's not the best thing to be or do, he can say goodbye and really mean it.

I can only say try to move on, my friend. It's painful but to him, he's trying to do the best for his child. Who knows how he's going to feel if you get in the way between him and the child.