I pray. I think of my value to myself and to others. I think about how I want to be known for if I wasn't here anymore.
My wife (WildSpectrumArts) motivates me. When she is not around and busy then I think of what I want to do to make myself better and what would be something that would surprise her if I tried something different.
having hobbies and interests<br />
in my case its magic the gathering cards<br />
in some of my friends its minatures for wargamming ie 40k and warhammer<br />
some women like shoes or a new dress or handbag , although a few guys im sure like new shoes or a suit<br />
whatever makes u happy....