Don't sit and wait for it, for the doubt will start growing. Keep moving on without harping on it. Never investigate for it may be real. Just let the doubt take its own course. if its there, its there.. if its not there.. its not there.. <br />
This way we never get destabilised by the outcome.. and there will always be the next best thing that we would have reached, since we are progressing.
Communication is a very integral part of making any relation work. Talk to each other.
I hate to say it, but I usually cheat. <br />
Any relationship problems and I turn to cheating. <br />
It's horrible and I'm not proud.
Honesty and open lines of communication should shun negativity and doubt... Most of the time in a committed monogamous relationship. It never works for the casual fickle dater.
A great deal of pain, and confusion :o(
Either dismiss or talk and settle.