How do you handle something like this?
My boyfriend hates that i smoke and infact broke up with his last girlfriend over it and her drinking. Well i guess she saw us together one night and walked up to him and was like " you broke up with me for that" reffering to me smoking. He brings this up to me while telling me i need to quit. I dont know who she is nor when or where this took place but am not diggin it. I feel like something was in front of my nose or behind my back and i am ignorant to it happening. When i say im not comfortable with the conversation he says "you dont even know who she is" being we have a very exclusive circle its hard for me to believe i dont know her. Im not a jelouse person but dont like an x being put in my face to prove a point
Now i want to know so i dont feel like shi& is happening under my nose. It just causes drama and feelings i think are unfair to me. I dont know..help a sister out..
How do i deal with this without bringing on my inner bitc&?