You very carefully suggest that they see a therapist to help them.
You don't. Helping people who are unstable is a bad idea, because unless you're a therapist or someone with a huge heart coupled with a ton of patience you probably won't get anywhere. <br />
If someone needs help, you can point them in the direction of a professional. Be a good friend but do not try to solve someone's problems or make them "stable" beyond what is reasonable. You can be careing and supportive without being their "answer".
they need you what else.....need you again again again....what attachment...
It would be hard. Most emotionally unstable people won't let you help them unless they truly trust you, and LET you help them. They would be emotionally attached to you, more than likely, and if you weren't with them, then... Yeah. You can refer them to a professional all you want, but there's no promise that they'll for sure go. Talking to them and letting them know that you there.. That has a bigger probability that it will help *Just my point of view*!
it's too late, just remember to protect yourself and think about what happens when the oxygen masks come down in a plane, you are holding a baby but you put your mask on first!!!!!!!
It sounds like you dislike metaphors, I believe that it is a very good example of why we should be selfish at times. Sorry you are offended by it, maybe it just hit home and that is why you don't like it. Are you still in denial?
Well done, but look into your projection issues.
You don't, becausue you already know they'll get emotionally attched.
Get yourself a good electric cattle prod.
with a tissue on the end of a long stick
i think you already are