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How do you keep yourself busey while your bf is gone for basic?

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Keep in mind that while he may not write as often as you would like (or maybe not at all), he's still thinking about you. But he's also bonding with his fellow recruits and being tortured to the point where picking up a pen literally HURTS at the end of the day. But...RECEIVING a letter from you every few days can be really inspirational for him and give him something to look forward to when he graduates from basic.

You could send him a few sexy pix of yourself...that might be fun to do...and think how crazy you will make him, thinking of you while he's there! You can just run around town, taking pix of yourself doing ordinary things....yanno, do a daily diary and take pix with your phone...then upload them to your computer, print them and send them along to him. See his and your friends, take more pix...send them to him.

Go to the library...borrow a book...yes, a book! Rent a movie for FREE while you are there....watch it. Maybe something girls like and he would absolutely HATE watching. He's not there...why not watch it now? Go to Blockbuster...rent more such movies.

Find a hobby....doesn't matter what it is...beadmaking, crafts, etc.

Take a class...on anything. Ceramics classes are fun and usually cheap. Plus you end up with some cool ceramic things that you created.

Go to a museum while you are out walking around the town, taking those pix I mentioned earlier. Blow his mind that you are SOOOOO bored with him being gone that you even resorted to visiting a museum. That will show him how much you really miss him.

We can come up with more...those are just a few things we popped out immediately....just scribble on our whiteboard if u want more suggestions.
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Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 11:32PM
hopefully you have friends and hobbies of your own?
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Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 8:24AM
This is funny, because I'm going off to basic training next year and my boyfriend will be the one stuck at home.

He won't be too bored, though, being that by this time he'll be working as a manager full time and probably spend the rest of the time with his parents--catching up, fishing, and playing video games with co-workers. Things he hasn't been able to do since he started college.
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Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 10:20PM
Write him A LOT! He will be very busy at basic training, but he will look forward to getting mail. When I was basic training and AIT my boyfriend (now my husband) was terrible at writing(I only got 2 letters from him at basic and 3 at AIT). I almost broke up with him because I felt like he forgot about me while I was gone. Find a hobby, workout, spend time with your friends and family. Write him and let him know what's going on with you at home.
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Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 11:33PM
Get a new BF...
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