If it's a romantic love, and it's new, chances are that it's lust right now....it draws us together...makes us feel we can't live without each other....keeps us up at night...makes us think about the other all the time...all signs of what we have come to believe is love....<br />
The true, enduring love part comes later...after the hormones have settled...and then you do just know...you know when you have been accepted for exactly who you are and you have done the same...you still get warm inside when you see him/her....you cannot imagine your life without that person...you are happiest with that person...you cannot wait to get home at the end of each day to just be together...<br />
Enjoy the lust...it is great fun...and relax about the love part...peace...SS
You need no one else beside him ...<br />
You love no one else beside him ...<br />
You think of no one else beside him ...<br />
He makes u laugh, he makes u cry ... <br />
but still you cant stop thinking of him when he smiles ...<br />
& you wish you could be with him for all of your life ;)
If you are anything like me, I cannot tell you, you will just KNOW. Your heart will tell you it is right. Mine did.
I agree with most of the other comments, 1st you need to be able to except the other person for all of their good, bad and ugly. Next hopefully they can do the same for you. Those darn awfull goosebumps doen't hurt either, lol. That wonderful feeling of being stupid and it doesn't matter what anybody thinks who sees it. Being in love is being able to be yourself. Of being willing to be stupid for each other and cherishing it. Love is willing to do the right thing for each other.
It is real love if you have accepted the other person for what he is with all his faults and shortcomings and love him just the same, nevertheless.
well i cried myself to sleep yesterday wishing the guy i liked for ten months did not turn out to be a jerk which he did :( love is only real when you want it to be
Every thing that is meant to be comes naturally. So does love, The most connective force on earth that creates a beautiful understanding between people. If you see someone you truely love and you truly feel it is real love, you wouldnt even know when you start talking to her, cuz your feelings would naturally come out and you would express yourself the way you never thought you could, incredibly sweet! As long as its from your heart and the person you love understands your love and has the same love for you, true love comes in, and nothing more matters! Stay cool!
it is different for different people<br />
If you're not sure and asking about it, I'm afraid it's not, dear.<br />
Sorry. But when you know it, you know it.
some says if you are questioning it, then its not real love. <br />
But then, nothing in this world is unconditional. Can you live with his fault and see past it? I suppose if you can without feeling resentful and eating you up inside then it is. <br />
some also says you know when it is.