talk is cheap and actions show the truth .....you would never have to question how someone feels about you ...if you do then maybe this isn't the right person for you ..
You want a test...go through something difficult and turn around and see if they are still there beside you helping you through.
Another tell them the worst thing about yourself and see if they run away or stay.
Here are some examples:
They don't reciprocate with things you'd appreciate (getting you coffee, etc.).
They don't remember anything personal you've told them.
Other people/things are always more important...and impressive.
They let interruptions take precedence over hearing the rest of your story...
Distractions of the smallest kind steal their attention when you're having a chat.
They don't nurture you when you aren't well.
Your problems/needs are irritants to them; it's all about them.
They do not follow through; you seem to be an afterthought.
You get the feeling they do not have your back; possibly the opposite.
It seems like if you disappeared they would barely notice.
Contact is patchy and they are never that excited to see you or hear your voice.
The future and doing certain things together someday are never discussed.
you know in your heart, listen to it.
Unfortunately, not every one has a heart that's true. Many have felt in their hearts that all was well, but sadly, they were trusting in a fraud, end result, all their trust and belief is betrayed. It's at that point you must walk away, because once trust is betrayed, there is nothing left you can believe in.
It's not about what they say, it's about how they treat you, and that has to be consistently or you'll know it's only temporary.
If you don't want to have any relationship problems, stay out of relationships, because they all come with problems.
We might not know...BUT
God is watching...so dont fake a caring heart...cos what goes around comes around!!
If they're not there through difficult times, walk away