Do you think about her way too much when you are apart? Does the sound of her voice, or the way she looks coming to meet you leaving you grinning from ear-to-ear? Does her scent or the touch of her skin make you feel like you are "home"?Do you lose all track of time when you are together? Have you lost all interest in other women? Does the thought of walking away from the relationship and not having her in your life, leave your heart saying "I just can't do it"? Do you still feel that way after six months, eight months, a year has passed? Are you certain she feels the same way about you?
This is what people mean when they say "you will know."
Infatuation?....of course. Obsession?!.......no. If her happiness and well-being is more important to you than your own, then she is "the one." Not saying you should sacrifice yourself for love, it is just the way it feels.
*shugs shoulders* Once I asked God to give me a partner, I guess you could call it a somewhat lengthy and heartfelt prayer. I was VERY specific, and God delivered to-the-t! It's hard to explain the details, I actually wish I'd never prayed the prayer. You see, when the time came and God had answered my prayer, I doubted myself, the same doubt I've had for years, that I am not, nor ever will be, a suitable partner. When the time came, I let him know that I was "insecure", and from what I've been told is that no one wants to be close to someone who is insecure, and therefore I shut myself away from most people, not knowing what's "normal" for societal interaction. I am aloof, "cold", "stuck up", but in reality, I hope they can see me for who I ultimately am, a coward, and ultimately even God will reject me for it. In conclusion, maybe you could pray about it, and be very specific, you know what the bible says about those who seek.
if she was - you wouldn't have to ask
if you know that you know that you know - than you know.
When she's looked after you and stayed with you for all your life and you still love and respect her.
Well...if it were me pondering this question I would think to myself...as my face resembles a big hairy arse and she still wants to know me then she is the one.
I can't really say but I know for sure that you're not in my cess pool because mine is bottomless.
Okay..just for you then.
Okay.. for your penance please slap yourself on the wrist 3 times with a feather.
Death by flogging with multiple duck down feathers at sunrise tomorrow for you then my friend!
She convinced me.
In my own case,in another city 8 years ago,I thought she was just a kid with a crush.When we met up again,that love was still there.I'm twice her age,not wealthy,not that good looking,yet she has loved me and wanted to be with me all that time,so I think it was something that was meant to be.
If you really know everything about each other,and can still both see yourselves happy together,then she probably is the one.
I had a job at the time that transferred me,she was a kid still in high school.As I said,I thought it was just a crush,that she'd get over it and find someone her age.Wasn't until later I realized she was part of God's plan.What else could have brought us together like that?