The "Shoop Shoop Song" (It's in His Kiss) by Sher is dead wrong. Their actions are the best indicator, but not absolute. The next best indicator is time. Infatuation fades with time, and deceition begins to show it's true colors. In both cases, the persons short attentions span begins to drift. Assuming you aren't living with him, the time between calls and dates increases. He is less attentive when you are together. ("Sorry honey. I need to text my ex. You go ahead and start eating.") He less available than in the past; typical cheating signes.<br />
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If he cares, the calls tend to become more frequent. A date every Friday nigh or Saturday - unless something major comes up - is understood and followed through on. A comfortable familiarity begins to form between you. The most accurate assessment of his love for you will come from your closest girl friends. Unlike you, studies have shown that they can judge his degree of commitment with a fairly high level of accuracy.

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If they are not in the throes of passion, it may be true. But, I know, I had to apologize to a client, because I am so used to saying to my kids *Good-bye, I love you* and one day when I was leaving work, I said that to my client. He laughed and said *You do?* I laughed and said *oops, sorry, I thought you were one of my kids.*

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They SHOW it. Not sexually.<br />
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1.) They will look at you with a look of pure wonder and care.<br />
2.) They may do little things like take your hand randomly, giving it a squeeze. Or they might kiss you tenderly on the head.<br />
3.) They WORK to keep it going. Love involves work, though not a lot of people treat it like it is. It doesn't just stay there- to keep it going, both people have to work to show these things:<br />
- you know them well<br />
- you know what they like<br />
- you know how they feel<br />
- you know how to care for them.<br />
4.) They will make room for you in their lives, whether it is clearing their schedule for you or being with you instead of having a guy's night/ girl's night out.<br />
5.) They will prove that they are committed to you: No cheating, no abuse, no skipping out on you when you need them.<br />
6.) They will respect what you say and be interested in what you're saying.<br />
7.) They will be willing to work through problems, willing to give a little to get a little in return.<br />
8.) Over time, they stay true to you. ALWAYS give it time, because puppy love and real love are very different.<br />
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And so much more.

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thank you for that...he told me loved for the first time but not sure if he really means it or really loves me as much as i love him...

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if you have been together long enough for it to actually be plausible.

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been together 6 months

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If they told you it first, its probably true. You can further prove it by their actions. Do they show you that they love you also?

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Hook them up to the probes, or you could just take it on blind faith.

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You can tell by their actions.

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