Usually you have lots in common and the same pet peeves. It also helps if he is responsible.

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you don't. not at first.<br />
the reason you found them was the initial attraction.<br />
they let you know, in countless ways - without ever knowing they are doing so - if they are the one or not.<br />
that takes time. often a lot of time.<br />
the inital tingling stomache etc.. just 'cos you heard her/his name or saw their face fades over time.<br />
if it is 'the one' it changes into a sense of being whole, together but not the together of the early stage. grr hard to explain.<br />
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I know I love her, truly deeply and often madly (cetainly angrily when she buggers up something) but why I know this. biik

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