When you no longer think of that peerson and their offense and your life is no longer inhibited because of it.
When you can think possitive thoughts about them, and honestly wish them the absolute best.
I don't think you're angry so much at what was done to you.. but in how this person made you feel.
You know when you can it let go.
When you can move forward instead of backward.
Most of all it's when you can see this person and realise they never mattered as much as you thought.
When you have that inner peace, not assisted by medication or alcohol-lol
when you meet up with them and they no longer affect you emotionally, one way or another.....
When you no longer feel angry about them or the pain they've caused.
when his presence stops reminding me what bad he did to me
When you have forgotten about it.
You see their good qualities again.
I guess I am not the forgiving type. There are somethings which I can never forgive.
may i know what makes you to think about this question?/