You need to understand men like him are absolute cowards, they're scared to death of the Police, they can only beat up on defenceless women and children or others who are smaller than them. Once the Police arrive, they're weak as water.<br />
He will never change, he will only get worse unless something is done to stop him. Either leave and never go back, or report him to the Police and let the authorities handle it from there, but make sure you support them or he'll be back on the street before you can blnk.
Very carefully. Just like I am doing...<br />
Tread carefully. <br />
Make a police report. Hopefully you have reported this before.<br />
Speak your limits. What is and is not tolerable. Be crystal clear. Give clear consequences of any abuses. State what he has done that is not acceptable.<br />
Have an escape plan. Emergency money, ID, etc. <br />
Leave no traces when you do go...Sounds necessary in your case.<br />
Make certain people who know you and care know where you are always.<br />
Have an emergency phone and numbers.<br />
Shelters may be helpful. There is a lot of help.<br />
Cover all your ba<x>ses. Know your weaknesses. Know how far he can be pushed. Know what are the triggers. Learn self-defense techniques. Protect yourself at all costs. Learn valuable lessons now. Good luck. You will need it and brains too!
Through your attorney and the police and leave him with nothing.
same way katie holmes left tom cruise
If you can afford an atty- start there. If not- go to your county clerk office and most likely the clerks will help you file an order of protecion and a matrimonial plaintiff's packet. Do not let him bully you or scare you back "home"--call the cops as often as you have to
Pack up and git... dont look back... I promise, it wont get any better
Well exactly how does he have a bd temper? Does he abuse very badly?<br />
omg that is very bad just call the police.
Do NOT, NOT, NOT try to do it on your own. Call social services and a lawyer immediately. Lawyers will almost always give free consultations so if you don't like one try another.
If you have any physical bruising go and report it to your doctor or to the police and let them know that if he is violent again you will be changing the locks. Change the locks when he is out you should not have to leave, inform the police to be in the area incase he decides to commit criminal damage to break in to your property. Leave his things outside before he arrives home. If he leaves you with out enough money to change the locks do not tell the locksmith until the job is done, then plead mercy and tell him why you can not pay him but promise him you will. Let as many official people know what is happenning, some friends may not believe he could do such a thing.
When he is alspeep.
back up if you can get some for the actual move. and the police if necessary. i have made arrangements to leave mine this weekend. i am getting the help of family. i know a confrontation is unavoidable unless i leave while he is at work, but i dont have that option.
i would like to add that my prayers are with you, and i do hope you get out safely.
Walk away never look back