How do you let go of someone you're hopelessly in love with?
10 Answers to "How do you let go of someone you're hopelessly in love with?"
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i need the answer to this too. i think finding someone else usually solves it but i don't know what to do in between..
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Why would you?
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No love back
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Sorry to hear that. Just move on. If you sulk over it, you may never stop.
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find someone else to love..
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i wouldn't know
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That old chestnut, time and time alone. Hang on in there, gets easier : )
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:)
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No contact, remove all reminders, hobbies, socialise, accept it is what it is, let it go. Sounds simple and patronising but I'm in the same boat! feel your pain
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You don't. If you love them, you try whatever you can to be with them. Only when your last efforts fail do you resign yourself to being without them. And even then, there is no way to accept or let go. You either can or you can't, and you suffer until you finally do.
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Love is just a series of complex emotions and like grief you can work through it. If you lose a dog then it can help a great deal to get another, and in love similarly, if you start looking around and become interested in another person you'll feel those same emotions being diverted.
Rejection is one of the greatest intensifiers because it attacks our very ego and lowers our self-esteem, but once you pull away and focus on building it up alone you become stronger.
Think of all the negative stuff you can about this guy too, and focus on that and it'll help in the letting go.Like (1)
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You won't. However there is a reason you want to let this person go. Which is why you have to. You will always remember them and you make always have feelings that can may be rekindled. But, for now just cease contact. Block numbers, Block facebook. This may seem rash, but in particular to your case of unrequited love you need to not be able to contact them
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by FallenAngelWOOT Dec 1st, 2012 at 5:25AM
Repeatedly remind yourself that they're not interested so you need to get on with your life.
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