Stop trusting people
Learn to forgive....We all make mistakes....We are all human...<br />
But if someone has broken that trust, and keeps doing it over and over, then take it slow with that person....
My words are easy to understand <br />
And my actions are easy to perform <br />
Yet no other can understand or perform them. <br />
My words have meaning; my actions have reason; <br />
Yet these cannot be known and I cannot be known. <br />
We are each unique, and therefore valuable; <br />
Though the sage wears coarse clothes, his heart is jade. <br />
Lao Tzu<br />
The most sincere trust starts from the position we are all inherently valuable and our individual experience is a source of endless knowledge and wisdom. Thus, you start from the assumption trust is possible and worthwhile cultivating and call upon your experience to nurture or, indeed, abandon trust.
trust issues are hard to fix. just accept it, jump right in and accpet things as they come. if you feel those issues coming up again keep them to yourself and don't let your bf/gf know about them. its hard enough when you ask if they are cheating, going to leave you or fall for someone else every day. your bf/gf as thier own life its not yours to contol.
once you have been screwed over it is hard to do? good luck
just dont trust anybody
Very hard but usually with time and effort from yourself or should I say awareness.
trust is hard to come by, just comprehend that and then when being let down it won,t surprise or make a shock
Accept that you could get hurt, but trust in your instincts that the person you confide in won't hurt you.