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How do you people deal with anxiety and depression when meds and counseling does no good?

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    Carissimi - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Carissimi Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:18PM

    It depends on what is causing your depression. There are several different kinds of depression. If it is a chemical imbalance, then the right medication is the best route to go. If your depression is situational, then you need to change your circumstances.........a lot easier said than done....right! It could be a combination of these things. I wish you the best of luck. I know how bad it feels.

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  1. Carissimi - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Carissimi Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:21PM

    Also, keeping the mind active, being around positive people, watching funny movies or being with people who make you laugh helps. Helping others. There are times when it sucks the energy right out of you, and you just need sleep when you feel like that.

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  2. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:17PM

    Anxiety that gets so bad i turn agoraphobic i think is my depression because i am not depressed when i feel good. I tried all antidepressants and anti anxiety meds and I just do not like the dopy numb feeling of meds. I even tried the "just do it anyway" it is easier to run and hide in my safeplace but i am tired of that also.

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  1. hunnydipz - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by hunnydipz Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:16PM

    I have traveled that very path my friend. The only thing that helped me was to volunteer. I gives you perspective into your not as bad off as ou think you are and helping others does something for your soul and self esteem that all the drugs and counseling can't hold a candle to. Good luck on your journey my friend. If you ever want to chat just friend me. I will do what I can for you. I must add that is in addition to your meds and counseling DON"T stop them. Ask your Dotor to adjust them but don't stop taking them.

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  2. sandman234567 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by sandman234567 Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:16PM

    Dont listen to this idiot you keep taking those pills youll become a vegetable especially seraquil ive been taking it for years itll make you worse than when you started off, Plus counseling doesnt work all they do is show pitty on you not like they will ever make you truelly happy

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  3. hunnydipz - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by hunnydipz Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:25PM

    Off the meds again..eh Sandman???

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  4. Zenny123 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Zenny123 Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:02PM

    By not expecting meds and counseling to solve the problem alone in the first place. They will have a helpful impact but they cannot replace willpower. There is a term used in mental health, “fake it till you make it”. That is get up each day at the same time, force yourself out of bed even when you do not want to, make your bed, shower, eat healthy, go for a walk, go to counseling, take your meds, work on personal self reflection, learn about depression, read, expand your mind. Be active, get out of the house, go to the mall or a coffee shop and just be in the world. Do something that interests you, or even maybe used to interest you, even if you don’t feel like it. You need to know that logically that these things WILL help and you need to make yourself do it like your life depends on it, because it does.

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  5. MsOracle - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by MsOracle Mar 31st, 2012 at 4:40AM

    It took years of tring one med combo after another until they got it righ, you have to be proactive in your search for this. I started suffering at 19 and didn't get it right for many years and i was deligent about it. Today I can say it's been worth my looking for the answers as I am at peace and feel I'm happier than most .

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  6. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Mar 31st, 2012 at 8:45AM

    The med's side effects are my complaint. And I am too anxious, nervous with panic attacks without them. Thank you for your reply :) I am happy you found peace, I hope to do the same one day.

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  7. MsOracle - 66-70 years old - female

    Reply by MsOracle Mar 31st, 2012 at 1:35PM

    I hear from you and sense you don't have long now, when the phoenix rises you will see your smarts take off into somewhat of a genuis within yourself all derived from a collection of experiences that still has changed your life evn with your depression, no..because of your depressions, the manic highs is the part of yourself that thinks genius and you know it. Go for everything because the sky can be the limit. As for the panic attact,...you must get to a Yoga class and learn to go with your head and let go , give it to God , a doorknob or anything you have faith in. Then ask for God if you will to direct and guide you to the place where all is well." Your fears are not you." Say when you first start to feel them,..just welcome them and relax when it gets there. Let ypour body do the relaxation. I so,.. so wish you well and pray that God Will be Done.

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  8. OpenEyes11393 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by OpenEyes11393 Dec 17th, 2011 at 5:47AM

    I made the people around me a priority. Through me helping them it led to me helping myself. It makes people feel good when they do something good for their fellow man. Keep busy and surround yourself with friends. People are essential to recovery. Nobody can do everything alone.

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  9. whatizmu - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by whatizmu Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:10PM

    Byron Katie's Inquiry, also known as The Work. It is free, it is easy, and it works.

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  10. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 17th, 2011 at 11:48AM

    its worth a try

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  11. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:12PM

    I go for a walk that helps anyone if you can go to a little park some where when you can.

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  12. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:19PM

    I love to go for a walk when i have someone to go with me

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  13. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Reply by justkoz Dec 16th, 2011 at 6:36PM

    Have you ever considered a dog? There are soldiers that come home and all they can do for them is get them a dog to love and take on walks. You might look into a service dog that can be there for you even bring it to work if this is that bad. Look up service dogs. Usually they are free to people that need some help!

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  14. Tgilly - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Tgilly Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:06PM

    blue lady and zenny have offered good advice..i'd like to add...your medication may not suit you..check this with your doctor.

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  15. solipsist7 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by solipsist7 Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:03PM

    keep trying until you can't..? I'll let you know when I'm done.

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  16. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 20th, 2011 at 12:32PM

    it would help if i stop giveing up

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  17. hopefullyhumble - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by hopefullyhumble Dec 16th, 2011 at 3:59PM

    That's a tough one. I use meds daily, and go to counseling if it feels like things are getting worse. I pray daily also, but honestly, none of these things alone would do it for me.

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  18. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 20th, 2011 at 12:30PM

    atleast now I know I am not alone. If you find a solution please share it with me.

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  19. sandman234567 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by sandman234567 Dec 16th, 2011 at 3:58PM

    You dont you just keep on getting more and more depressed unless you find someone, or find something time consuming like crack ******, becoming a drunk, or ****** with other peoples **** .... just joking...

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  20. hunnydipz - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by hunnydipz Dec 16th, 2011 at 4:56PM

    Go to the joke boards then

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  21. preciousHrt - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by preciousHrt Dec 16th, 2011 at 3:56PM

    Mediatation...trust me helped save my *** :)

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  22. 1woody - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 1woody Dec 16th, 2011 at 5:24PM

    i'll give that a try

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