How do you react when someone hurts your feelings?
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Posted by enchantingjade Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:53PM
I will keep quiet ..keep to myself..
cos one hurting heart is better than two...
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Posted by Lushiro Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:53PM
Depends actually...
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Posted by GodsLovedMan Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:50PM
I get very upset about it; and eventually, usually cry.
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Posted by 1ANGRYMAMA0911 Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:36PM
I THINK FOR ME IT DEPENDS CUSE IF ITS MY MOM IM NOT GONA SAY MUCH TO HER..ITS A HUMAN NORMAL REACTION TO DEFEND OURSELVES THOUGH WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US OR SAYS THE WRONG THINGS ABOUT US..IT HURTS EVEN MORE IF ITS TRUE BUT FOR ME IF I KNOW ITS NOT TRUE THEN IT DOESNT BOTHER ME..MEMBER SOME PPL SAY THINGS OUT OF ANGER TO JUST HURT US..LIKE "HEAT OF THE MOMENT"...SO ITS NOT ALWAYZ TRUE..BUT I DONT KNOW WHOEVER SAID WORDS DONT HURT LIED CUSE THEY SURE AS HELL DO! YOU CAN BREAK A PERSON OR YOU CAN BUILD THEM UP WITH YOUR WORDS! PPL SHOULD CHOSE MORE WISELY..MITE B THE LAST THING THEY SAY TO THAT PERSON..SOME PPL CANT HANDLE HURTFUL WORDS..IT REALLY DOES HURT THO...
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Posted by overhome56 Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:13PM
What are feelings? Meds have eliminated them.
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Posted by Alex1993 Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:02PM
Most people in my past I kind of try to confront about that stuff but they didn't care plus I really don't talk about it normally, never was the open type to share to much like that..... I just listen to music and try to relax an forget it.
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Posted by Jadeebaby Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:54PM
Badly, I can't deal with anyone hurting me any more.
I've dealt with to much bullshit.
Yeah sometimes I hide away other times I go mad.
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Reply by GodsLovedMan Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:57PM
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Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:52PM
hurt them back....
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Posted by LostSoul0007 Aug 29th, 2012 at 4:31PM
I cry and suck on my pacifier
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Posted by onwayout Aug 29th, 2012 at 1:13PM
After awhile, it's just another hurt piled on top of all the other hurts. What makes one hurt, more? All of it hurts. How am I supposed to react? Getting mad accomplishes nothing. Staying sad does nothing either. People want to be mean, that's just the way it is. I can't stop it. I'm not going to stand there and say, oh yeah, well, listen to what I have to say,. because people who say hurtful things are ONLY interested in saying hurtful things. They are not interested in how you feel, what you think, or how you actually conduct yourselves. It's wasted time and effort dealing with hurtful people.
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Posted by vibrante Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:50PM
It so depends on who it is and the relationship dynamics.My former gentlemen friend said something really disrespectful about a value I hold dearly.
I was stunned at first,went home,then did not answer his phone call that night. The next day I wrote him a letter apologized for not being able to talk about it right away.
He claimed he did not recall saying it,but,if he did ,sorry.
That was the beginning of the end.
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Posted by Liambear Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:12PM
I cry and tell mommy.
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Reply by Aimlesswriter Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:14PM
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Reply by Liambear Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:16PM
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Posted by AloneJAI Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:01PM
I jst went to a lonely place nd think off that y that person treat me such way? Nd it hurts me more when that person is quite near to my heart...
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Posted by imnotsureicandothis Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:00PM
I reacess and think of a sensible way to respond.
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Posted by bluebeat Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:56PM
i'm a man i have no feelings
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Reply by vibrante Aug 29th, 2012 at 10:05AM
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Posted by BadassQuiat Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:56PM
Cry.
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Posted by SoulSucker Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:55PM
I'm a sensitive person, so I usually try to rationalize why they would do something like that, evaluate what I might have done to cause their disrespectful behavior and if I can't figure it out, I allow myself to realize that they're just douchebags that don't deserve my time.
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Reply by GodsLovedMan Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:57PM
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Posted by ErieHandyMan Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:54PM
I get my tazer. They won;t make that mistake twice.
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Reply by GodsLovedMan Aug 28th, 2012 at 9:58PM
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Posted by MikeWinther Aug 28th, 2012 at 8:51PM
Ask them why they did
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