Well to give you the other extreme, I've never said I love you to my girlfriend, and we've been together more than a year. I think he's going very quick for people who have never met in person yet. He's going quick for people that have met. He's just going quick. Tell him to slow it down or he'll ruin it
You NEVER know until you meet someone face to face if the attraction is real. This really surprises me.. usually girls will "fall in love" with a person via text-only, whereas a man needs to see you. I recommend caution.
Actions speak louder than words. <br />
Sometimes though I wonder when things like this happen is if you just found someone who is in love with love, who has a goal of marriage and you fit into that goal... or if it is the real deal. No one can answer those questions except you... and I am not sure that you can trust an over the internet answer.<br />
On another note though... if you both share a goal of marriage, and are willing to put everything into it... arranged marriages can work. We are not always happy with our family, but most of the time we work through it because there is no other option... if you approach marriage the same way, and your greatest wish is to see to his happiness, and his greatest wish was to see to yours... then love can grow where it wasn't before. Yeah... like I believe in that anymore! Don't rush it... if its love, time will not kill it.
Infatuation, not true love yet. Feelings are bouncing everywhere.
It's overwhelming tell him to TAKE IT SLOW. No way this relationship will be successful if it's rushed, you guys basically just met sheesh. GOOD LUCK!
LOL men think with two brains ;) I think with the one with logical sense!
Sounds like you've got a whacko on your hands...
If you meet him, make SURE that it's somewhere very public. If you set up a date for coffee, you can get out of there quickly!
I once dated a woman who proposed marriage to me during our third date!!! She had it all planned out which date the wedding will be that year. I later found out that she was unemployed and getting mental disability payments. That helped to explain it.
dump in......... and see what he does next ???/