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My boyfriend and I have arguments a lot... I find it sometimes healthy in a relationship to not always agree.
Our resolution to a problem is a process...

First, we never let each other go to bed or hang up angry, we make sure that everything is resolved first.

Second, We check our stubbornness at the door. We both agree that it is the worst thing to have in a relationship because it prolongs arguments and leads to break ups, so we are both open minded and willing to change our attitude and opinions given the other proves their point and the reason why they are arguing is justified.

Then we talk it out. Give your points of reason and listen to the other. Sometimes we raise our voices, but honestly I have learned that raising your voice during an argument just makes things worse.

Finally, the "wrong" person acknowledges they were wrong and apologizes (the right person really tries not to gloat - although it has been proven difficult at times)... We tell each other how much we love each other... and voila... fight resolved.

(sometimes getting to this point takes hours, however it is well worth it.)