You sound like you got your act together. No time for losers or pretenders.
I think you may be "aloof". I'm aloof but not a snob; a bit on the shy side, kindly person, just not good at inane small talk...never mastered it. <br />
Snobs on the other hand, use words like "pedestrian" or "dreary" and emotions/facial ex<x>pressions are fine tuned to fit the occasion. Disingenuous.
Haven't quite figured out why that term is used to describe me... I simply think people don't know me because I am width and eccentric so they assume I'm a snob... quite the contrary.. I just am not fond of everyone I come across nor can I pretend to...
Two people can both be standoffish for two totaly different reasons.<br />
1) One because they think they are superior and the other person does not merit their attention.<br />
2) One because they are shy and don't think they merit the others attention. <br />
There may be a 3rd and a 4th type... What type are you?
Sorry i don't know what "one up me" means? but anyway you do not sound like your being a snob.
Oh one upmanship I understand. There is nothing wrong with wanting to avoid vain boasters.
you get water up your nosewhen it rains
That's called looking for a genuine person.........not snobbery
Well u should know this.........people can / and always think whatever they want to........as long as you like who you are ...things are good.
If people feel that way.
When people dont want to be around you