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I am not a mean person so I would want to gently without hurting someones feelings like to know how to tell someone softly im not interested and explain why.
Deactivatedd Deactivatedd 18-21 16 Answers Jan 18, 2012

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Thank you for your interest, I'm flattered -- who wouldn't be? But I am not interested as I am in a very different place than you are, and looks like I have a long road to travel. So sorry, but I have to go. Be well!

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Be honest with them. Reverse the situation and think how you would want to be told. No one likes to be hurt or lied to.

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Don't sweat it. They should pick up on your lack of interest, people gotta read one another. If they can't take a hint, don't even be gentle...save them some time and you the hassle.

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truthfully. but you may have to get mean at some point. i had a guy who would not take the nice explanation of i'm not interested. then he would text things that i SURE was not interested in with him. i had to tell him to leave me the **** alone. <br />
good luck with it.

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smile while you are saying bugger off ?

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say, it's not you, it's me.<br />
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Never explain why, that will make them think you are telling them so they will change.For me, if it is a guy and they demand an answer I am claiming I'm a lesbian.

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"Hey, you would be perfect with a friend of mine. Can I set you up?"

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I say you have things you are working at the moment and you wouldn't be able to give them the attention they deserve.

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most of the time if your soft about it they don't get the point, make your point firm.

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I like you, but not in that way. reasuring and still letting them know.

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