Sorry about your issue. Don't sell em short. Be upfront. What ever the response is, a least you know. Better than just tormenting yourself like you have been. Best wishes.
:)...You think you are only one who needs attention?
It doesn't matter how or when. If they love you they will support you. <br />
And if they don't, they obviously don't deserve you.
honesty is best
have to be honest or it will hurt even more